Hm... Well, I'm really cold...
& my tooth hurts...
The left lens of my glasses is the wrong prescription...
& the bruise on my foot is still as blue as it was when i got it,
but it also itches now.
Bahaha
On a lighter note...
I made kim get a BlogSpot too ! (:
Now I can finally know what she's thinking.
You mysterious banana, you.
(Don't follow me, creeper.)
Tuesday, January 27, 2009
Monday, January 26, 2009
Hello first blog.
Lately, a lot of people have been coming to me for relationship advice. & If this was you then you should probably continue reading...
Mkay, so I was sitting in Psychology today, and Mr. Cline was explaining some powerpoint about character 7 shitet. (Haha. I bet that made Vanessa go "bahaga".)
He showed us a quote by Abe Lincoln, & it went like this:
I find it weird that people must learn from experience. Like why is it that we have to suffer before we finally learn? Why can't we just accept the good advice people give us before any bad happens? Why do we realize what we should have done after it's already too late?
Well, I'll tell you why.
It's because we're human.
It's inevitable that bad things and bad decisions will reoccur in life.
"You never know until you try."
It sounds cliche but you know it's true. So don't sit around & mope about things, saying "I wasted my time" or "She wasn't worth it" or "I wish I never met him" or "I regret ever doing that" or.. well, yeah. You get the jist.
Like just think about it...
If you truely meant these things, then you would have never learned that your mistakes... were mistakes.
& then you'd end up doing the same thing in a different relationship with a different person anyway, am I right?
Thought so.
So, what I guess I'm trying to say is...
you don't have to go through bad experiences and come out with a bad attitude. Just be accepting of your mistakes. Don't put the blame on yourself saying "Oh, I was so stupid and I shouldn't have [insert fail here]." If these mistakes never happened, then you would never know how to improve in future relationships. Think of it like, "This was all for the better," and try to be positive, you know?
The only way you can be happy.. is if you TRY to be happy.
Stop looking at the glass as half empty & start realizing that it's also half full.
Mkay, so I was sitting in Psychology today, and Mr. Cline was explaining some powerpoint about character 7 shitet. (Haha. I bet that made Vanessa go "bahaga".)
He showed us a quote by Abe Lincoln, & it went like this:
"Most people are about as happy as they want to be."I can't help but completely agree with this statement. After all I've been through, I've FINALLY come to the realization that the only reason I was so unhappy with my life and the way things were was because I made myself unhappy.
I find it weird that people must learn from experience. Like why is it that we have to suffer before we finally learn? Why can't we just accept the good advice people give us before any bad happens? Why do we realize what we should have done after it's already too late?
Well, I'll tell you why.
It's because we're human.
It's inevitable that bad things and bad decisions will reoccur in life.
"You never know until you try."
It sounds cliche but you know it's true. So don't sit around & mope about things, saying "I wasted my time" or "She wasn't worth it" or "I wish I never met him" or "I regret ever doing that" or.. well, yeah. You get the jist.
Like just think about it...
If you truely meant these things, then you would have never learned that your mistakes... were mistakes.
& then you'd end up doing the same thing in a different relationship with a different person anyway, am I right?
Thought so.
So, what I guess I'm trying to say is...
you don't have to go through bad experiences and come out with a bad attitude. Just be accepting of your mistakes. Don't put the blame on yourself saying "Oh, I was so stupid and I shouldn't have [insert fail here]." If these mistakes never happened, then you would never know how to improve in future relationships. Think of it like, "This was all for the better," and try to be positive, you know?
The only way you can be happy.. is if you TRY to be happy.
Stop looking at the glass as half empty & start realizing that it's also half full.
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